- I move beyond my old limitations and allow myself to express freely and creatively.
- Try loving that child. Starting can be rough. I had to understand him first – his search for love.
- Even though I’m NOT a morning person, I have to say I do love the early morning hours just before the sun comes up. Everything is so still and quiet. People are still sleeping, and the only noises to be heard are the occasional chirping of the crickets and birds, and the humming of hummingbirds wings.
- I’m feeling really good today. Perhaps it’s because I’m leaving to go on a road trip later today. I love road trips, and driving.
- Yesterday, I shared that I had recovered a flashback
- Today I am going to write about why I think this is information I needed to process.
- I’m kind of in a rut right now. I’m having a really hard time knowing what’s right from wrong. I don’t really know how to explain it…but it’s tearing me apart. In the last 12 months I have heard numerous times that what the people in my past did to me was wrong, horrible, and not okay. But because I have the tendency to push people away, it’s all happening again.
- So, I’m lost.
- Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and griefs which we endure help us in our marching onward.~ Henry Ford
- ow that I am on the other side of that great weekend, things are starting to crumble
- I was wonderfully distracted, but now at home the distraction is gone and my mind is being flooded with thoughts I can barely contain and it is becoming increasingly difficult.
- It feels lame to post about good days, and these posts sure do get a lot fewer hits, but so be it. I had a good day, and if I never document good days, this blog isn’t representative.
- But of course a good day doesn’t mean that all my problems and issues cease to exist; it’s just a day without any major triggers. I do think that my good days are due in part to the work that’s done mentally on the bad days.
- It is said people with DID can have alter activity even if they are asleep.... which can explain some missing time... feeling tired in the morning... waking up in other rooms ... stuff like that... Yes yes it's weird even for me.... but it happens...
- I'm hoping at some point to capture a picture of her.. but that won't be so easy since i'm sleeping...
- The blue tiles lined with a hopeless effort to fit in. The floor always reflecting a self conscious, fearful, younger me, who thought she had everything under control.
- But there’s also something really relaxing about talking with people who just know you on this other level – the one where you grew up together, danced at each other’s weddings, etc.
- On the drive home I was all full of extrovert goodness, eager to share the joy.
- Some of us drink. Some of us smoke pot. Some of us take pills. It’s a very common practice among the mentally ill. I just wrote a blog post about that very subject: Mental and Self-Medicating I’m only human. I have weaknesses. I have problems with moderation and self-control. But I am far from being a junkie.
- Whomever this chick was, she needs to read more of our tweets before she judges us.
- Some of us drink. Some of us smoke pot. Some of us take pills. It’s a very common practice among the mentally ill. I just wrote a blog post about that very subject: Mental and Self-Medicating I’m only human. I have weaknesses. I have problems with moderation and self-control. But I am far from being a junkie.
- Whomever this chick was, she needs to read more of our tweets before she judges us.
- There are also thing about being in a relationship with someone who has DID that aren't always easy - according to him...*shrugs*....we don't always understand, because we think we're as normal as females are, generally speaking.
- We still don't think we're worth it, and some of us know we aren't.
- It is now clear that when I was 12 and this may be true for some cults I was given what they thought was an opportunity. In a way I was put on the cross roads. In my case it was three times.
- What they really were offering is I could do well on my own and if I did they would take credit and they would only really be about any advantage to them.
- Conspiracy time: Isaac suffers from multiple personality disorder...
- In that case Samson would be Isaac's pent up rage against everything, bloody lust making you stronger the more you kill enemies.
- I became my wife’s caregiver, peacemaker and sometimes a target. She suffers from Multiple Personality Disorder. Nothing was ever easy or went smoothly. At times my life and safety were seriously compromised. Finally, I became overwhelmed by her illness and after the years of turmoil and uncertainty I left. I felt I had no choice but to take care of myself for a change. How do I get rid of these guilty feelings that I have?
- If you are taking her to physicians for help, then I’m sure they are telling you how to “best” handle her situation. You may be all that she has right now, and if you give up on her it could equate to the same as stealing her last ray of hope… No one “chooses” to be sick, and if your wife could talk to you rationally from her “main” character I am sure you’d know what she would say to you.
- Do you think if a woman had MPD it would be possible for her to physically do everything the Ripper did?
- The throat cuttings were particularly deep and savage and required a good amount of force. Also, some of the ladies may have been a bit difficult to subdue and required to be "handled." On the other hand, we DO have lady weightlifters. Possible? Yes.
- O’Hearn is now online in an intriguing Web series of his own creation. In “Alter Ego,” he plays an ex-wrestler on the verge of transitioning to A-list movie stardom, but his mind begins to work against him and his grasp of reality becomes increasingly frayed.
- So, basically I had an idea for a superhero with a trait that I’ve never seen any other superhero have: his main fault is that he is possessed with a multiple personality disorder. I put pen to paper and started writing out the story.
- Herschel Walker, the winner of the Heisman Memorial Trophy from 1982, made a special visit to Naval Hospital Camp Lejeune Aug. 9 to speak out about mental health.
- In 2008, Walker published his autobiography titled “Breaking Free.” In the book he announced, for the first time, his battle with dissociative identity disorder, more commonly known as multiple personality disorder.
Definition of dissociative identity disorder
1.a psychological disorder characterised by the existence of multiple, distinct identities or personality states 2.a diagnosis of the above states as determined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (the DSM).- abbreviated as DID formerly known as Multiple Personality States (MPD) further information on http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx18.htm andhttp://www.pods-online.org.uk Examples 1. Lucy lives with DID 2. Lucy's amnesiac episodes are caused by Dissociative Identity Disorder.
- Finding a Qualified Therapists Dissociative Identity Disorder Interview Questions Below I will share with you some questions that you might ask when interviewing a therapist. Make sure that you look through them and add your own. Bring them with you to the interview and take notes. It will also be important for you to know what ‘model’ of therapy they will be practicing. Following the questions, I will provide a quick explanation of each – and you can research further if need be.
- (Orignial Air Date: 05/04/12) Sarah took her two young boys, ages 2 and 4, to the gas station and ended up missing for 13 hours. Claiming no memory of what happened during that time, Sarah says she came to at an area hospital miles away. The boys were found alone in the car at the gas station by a convenience store clerk who called the police. Authorities were able to get in touch with Sarah’s husband because her phone and wallet were found in the car. She has been arrested on child abandonment charges and is awaiting trial in June. Did she really lose her memory, or is she making the whole story up? While at Dr. Phil, Sarah undergoes a polygraph examination regarding her memory of what occurred during those 13 hours. Don’t miss the shocking results!
- aving just watched, I'm confused as to why Dr Phil isn't seeing dissociative identity disorder as a possibility. Granted I'm not a medical professional but just from what I know of D.I.D. , I believe that is something they should look into.
- It was the middle of Summer in 2008 — a total of 7 years after I had been diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder at the psychiatry clinic where I walked in reporting a feeling of dread that I might actually have multiple personalities.
- And then he showed us a documentary on Kenneth Bianchi, the Hillside Strangler, who attempted to use Dissociative Identity Disorder as a legal defence when arrested. I was mad within the first five minutes, because I could tell so immediately that he was faking, based on my direct experiences with the disorder.
- Cold Feet and Multiple Personality Disorder
- The panicking will start (meaning I’m having some type of fit at least once a day) about two weeks to ten days before the event (the event would be the day I leave, in this case), it’ll peak three or four days before the event, and it’ll stop two days before the event happens.
- I cannot tell exactly when this all started, but about 8 months ago I was going through a very difficult period in my life, and this resulted in a lot of stress and I thought I was going mental, hearing another voice inside my head more and more often.
- ut lately she has been possessing our body more and more often, and I don't quite like things that she does, like smoking or spending time with some suspicious people, and I can't even know for sure what she does, because she is present all the time and I'm not. I'm not sure what to do.
- I'm not sure if it's a recognized disordder or now, but I know two people whp claim to be diagnosed with DID. Neither of them and/ or their 'identities' are influenced by culture or religion. One of them is a more extreme case than the other. And it's not a new or recent issue that they have been faced with. One of them is 30 now and states he was diagnosed with DID between the age of 12 and 16. Like the person above said, i think any mental illness that is not accepted socially, religiously, or culturally is pinned as a sort of "religious trauma." main reason being lack of knowledge or understanding.
- think being non sprirtual is related to identity disorder When you are spiritual, you discover your true nature, your talents and skills, your true potential, your self worth.
- I was diagnosed with DID 10 years ago. Been on and off in therapy. Tried 100's of meds. Can you be helped if your currently being abused? If you dont know who is being abused how to you stop them from being abused. How do you stop the switching?
- I'm having an issue with a part who LOVES to abuse substances of any kind - to dangerous levels.
- This part in particular carries a lot of pain, most of it I think. How can she get so much help?I am really new to DID and this substance abuse thing has become a huge issue and trying to get a handle on it has been really hard as I've learned that others help.
- after I realized that my intense triggering came from that letter, I sealed it in an envelope and gave it to my best friend to read.
- She is going to hand-deliver the letter to my therapist since she will see him before I will. That way, my therapist and I can hit the ground running talking through it when I see him.
- It was kinda funny I woke up and went to swing my legs over the bed. Well there is a wall there.
- I went to the other side last night. That in part is what the bridge I had to build was.
- We can do this, right?
- We decided after a few minutes of bad mojo that we should take another look at the Dr. Marvin picture. Yes, that’s about how we roll. Just whatever it takes to calm our system down.
- I am going to try to do some of the things. Number One is to list three new things you are grateful for each day, for 21 days. Number Two is to journal every day about something positive that happened that day. Three is exercise–I’m already working on that one. The other two are meditation and random acts of kindness.
- I also wrote to T about ideas of things that would make me/parts feel comforted, and I realized as I was writing that all of them had to do with outside of session things. I don’t think the things I came up with are actually the most important, but I think they showed that I am still wanting reassurance that she continues to exist and think/care about me between appointments.
- At times the anger becomes overwhelming — at the abusers, at the people who deny it happened, at the people who cover it up, at anyone who looks or acts like the ones who hurt you.
- Because of these things, I have DID/MPD, PTSD
- Last night there was much emotional upheaval, and the body went through a lot as well.
- Today, I have just been trying to take care of myself as best as possible.
- I found myself so relaxed. And since my son did not want to do activities too close to the falls, i found that there was no recurrences of those nervous pinpricks where i thought someone might be trying to say something.
- I listened to my friend’s opinions non-judgmentally, and when it was my turn to speak, I was able to answer her rationally – while still maintaining my boundaries. So, here were my responses:
- I had to remind myself that my friend has never met K., and she has never really been interested in my therapy before, so she is just misinformed.
- Photo taken by Josefine, a swedish photography student currently based out of Los Angeles.
- The reason she decided to pursue photography full time is because she saw the impact pictures can have on people, both by looking at them, and making them.
- This link and video may cause triggers or make you cry or help you understand you’re not alone or something else I don’t know or haven’t thought of.
- I think phobias exist when ignorance persists. Maybe I’m preaching to the choir here, but WE-we, who struggle with mental illness–have a role in setting new views for treating mental illness. For me, it means letting people know who I am, and what I’m about through my blog and within my close circle of friends. It also means getting outside my comfort zone of angst to share information about what it’s like to have DID with medical communities.
- After all, the point is to educate the public about the relationship between child abuse and many mental illnesses. This is information too few people understand.
- get rid of it even, I could do it, put locks on the doors of everyone and everything that isn’t allowed out anymore. Just in one fell swoop deny those parts any more interference with my life
- And before you tell me that no, I couldn’t; yes, I could. And I could do it well, I could force myself to have the most beautiful, normal, fulfilling life. I could, and if she could fall in love with me again, I wouldn’t need much else in life to be happy.
- the body reinacts and pains over these last two of which no one knows what is happening other than the body sensations.
- no one wants to know what these last two are about.
- This weekend I made some progress on Vampire: The Masquerade – Bloodlines. Probably the most famous character from that game — given that she’s on the boxart — is Jeanette Voerman, everyone’s favorite Malkavian. Jeanette & Therese are the most interesting characters in the game, in my opinion.
- For those who have played the game, or don’t care about me spoiling it, you’ll know that Jeanette & Therese are in fact the same person. Voerman (as I will refer to them as a combined individual) has a split personality, officially know as Dissociative Identity Disorder, formerly Multiple Personality Disorder.
- Multiple Personalities, now knows as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), is the single most controversial diagnosis in the diagnostic manual. Most would agree with that statement I think.
- One of the most bizarre aspects of this diagnosis and its promoters is the wish to have their cake and eat it too.
- This is a horrendous article. I have read Stranger in the mirror and it's a great book. Loftus even attacks the SCID-D that Steinberg developed. (Steinberg Clinical Interview for DSM-IV Dissociative Disorders)
- The Most Dangerous Book You May Already Be Reading
- Cases like Hans' seem to hint at a rather exotic idea: Perhaps more than one "person" or "personality" (whatever that means, exactly) can inhabit the same brain. That's certainly what bestselling authors like Flora Rheta Schreiber and Daniel Keyes insisted when they wrote their "true-life" accounts of patients with multiple personality disorder.
- The problem is that that disorder has proven to be too controversial for comfort
- … One of the most baffling mysteries of multiple personality disorder is how alternate personalities can sometimes show very different biological characteristics from the host and from each other.
- There’s no mystery. The body is just a vehicle for the mind/spirit/soul to experience this density of what we call physical reality.David Icke calls the body a genetic spacesuit, since we need to wear our bodies in exactly the same way and for the same reasons.If a person has allowed or has been possessed by various spirits or personalities, they will perceive reality differently even through the same sensory organs.
- I actually just found out. When I told people I had alter Egos, everyone thought I was being funny and it was my choice. It's not. Though it's kind of enjoyable at times, it's gotten my in trouble.
- Truthfully, it's almost like my life hasn't changed, knowing. Other than uncontrollable outbursts that are NOT my thoughts.
- But apparently some parts of me are terrified, and yesterday these parts got overwhelmed and I lost control of them and of my whole system. It started out simply enough. Just your typical rapid heartbeat and shortness of breath.
- I thought to myself that if I were in front of company, then surely my parts would behave and I’d be able to act natural. But that’s not what happened. I sat down with them and opened my beer.
- Most of the time, I have my life together. I live the life of an organized neat freak and I love it. I love my life and all the randomness that encompasses.Today wasn’t one of those days, it was one of “those” days. I didn’t get triggered or get any new memories I just felt overwhelmed by the progress that I have made in the past few months.
- I have been going so fast through my memories that sometimes I forget to connect them to myself because I know that is when healing takes place. I called my T today and she told me what I needed to hear “even T-Rex’s have rough days”.
- Among the many interesting aspects of getting to know this woman as I share my own self with her is that I have a fresh person to tell my trauma story to. That is always an inevitable occurance now.
- Part of the reason this happens is that everyone’s view of the world and of other people in it is colored by what they understand about how earliest experiences shape how one lives the rest of their life.
- We are in two places at once. It is two separate entities that are aware of each other and both of them are me. We are used to the astral projection. This is different.
- As a warning, I’m a bit (lot) angry today, so this may well read more as a rant, than reasoned discussion…
- I just called…
- To say hellooooo out there. I figured this is a good way to start writing again – to just do it. The first post is always the hardest.
- If I had to choose between having a physical problem with great parents (as it sounds like he had) and a strong body with abusive parents, I think I would take the former.
- I thought about it and I realised that here, on my blog is the only place I am ever authentic. In real life I put on a smile and pretend to be fine.
- I haven’t got the energy for anything much at the moment. I’m depleted and it all feels too much.
- I must goGo far from hereTo a place where people careTo a place that has no harsh edgesTo a place where no one is left behindIt is there I must go
- I just wish I knew what was eating me. Like some small itch scratching, nervously about something unkown. Otherwise, we are ready for 2 days of fun and i am also looking forward to see what the house looks like when we get back.
- There are far too many stories of the grandfathers house and finally i think we are ready to start sharing them, there is nothing more we can do the secrets have to be exposed for unless we do we cannot recover. This has become a journey of trust we now trust rachel as our therapist and for that reason this horrid recovery work must commence.
- And I have long known that the Internet is a unique medium with a lot of unpredictability. I have mostly been comfortable with that by working at maintaining healthy boundaries.
- I also started having broader issues. This blog is one aspect of my life that I keep somewhat separate by being careful not to share, for example, my full name. But aside from that, I have been very honest about who I am, what I think and what I feel. From the beginning I said if I could not be honest, then what is the point in having a blog in the first place?
- I’m still as passionate about all the things I was passionate about before mental illness took over. I care about people, society and equality and I’m prepared to fight for those who cannot fight for themselves.
- I have read the new mental health strategy; I could write many responses to it and indeed cannot rule-out many, different responses to it appearing here on the blog over the coming days. I was trying to be generous when I set-out to read it; I thought it was too ambitious to expect that dissociative disorders would be addressed at all. I was prepared to base my response around the proposals to address trauma disorders- PTSD, C-PTSD, DDNOS and DID.I changed my mind and I have the Scottish Government to thank for this, for reminding me that stigma, even self-stigma is damaging.
- Contrary to the media’s portrayal of DID, this coping style can appear hidden to others who come in contact with the individual. It is not as apparent as it is portrayed in movies and television. Though it is not always readily observable on the outside, it causes great frustration, confusion, pain, sadness, and shame internally for the client. Kluft (2005) quotes Gutheil’s description of DID as “as psychopathology of hiddenness (p.635).”
- Studies have shown that for those with DID, it is not enough to treat them solely with methodology designed for trauma. They, in fact, show much greater improvements when the dissociative aspects of their life are directly acknowledged and treated.
- Every memory leads me back to that place,
- I was surprised that she called them flashbacks because I always think of flashbacks as being images that come out of nowhere and knock a person on the ground and leave them writhing and screaming or incapacitated. I’m not incapacitated by them they’re just…unsettling, unwelcome, immovable and disturbing.
- Sometimes it feels like we have nothing important to say but I know that’s not true, and I know sometimes just seeing another person’s words can make a difference for a someone (including me/us).
- Everyday activities are a challenge when there is an internal mutiny and external threats. Forces that seem to put me in the same scared and powerless position I was in as a child are not helping me focus on healing. I am so frustrated having to keep secrets as an adult and not being able to talk about things that continue to affect my life.
- The thing is that I can't see why feeling emotions has a purpose. How can this be productive? Emotions are messy and keeps one from seeing with clarity. I am here stuck in the emotions and I don't like it. There are things I need to be doing to keep my home stable/secure and I don't know how to set the emotions aside. The resources I had internally are not there and they refuse to help.
- I think it goes without saying that we all know what it is like to experience difficult emotions, sensations, memories, etc. For me, it changes depending on the part who is associated with the trauma. Some parts seem to kick up a lot of body sensations (nausea, dry heaving, diarrhea, stomach growling loudly, headache, fatigue/tiredness, etc.) in response to stress. I have had other times where a part has specifically kicked up severe depression or anxiety. These are all the types of trauma reactions that get so overwhelming that I dissociate or get stuck in severely numbed state and cannot function.
- I like my colors. What would happen if I were to say “leave me alone”? Isn’t he supposed to specialize in alter crap? Colors were not part of the deal.
- Anxious energy has a much greater (?inevitable) propensity to turn into an emotional meltdown.
- It's hard to know how to feel about the prospect of integration: alters becoming one more unified person. Although it would surely make for an easier life, the thought of the little ones growing up can be very hard and sadness is only natural. It's no wonder some people choose not to integrate. What are your thoughts?
- “this problem” the body memories that are going on a year and a half stretch overworked muscles and visit the body too many times a day to count
- We fucking lived thru it, probably something that caused a split in people, a core split of which we don’t have the host to be the center at this time.
- ometimes I wonder who would I have been ... had I not had experienced some of what I have? have you ever wondered if there was.... something or someone you could have been? would I have accomplished more? would I have accomplished less? I'll never know..but I will always wonder... hell I wonder day to day... sometimes minute by minute..who I am?
- ome multiples state they don't know the difference... between fantasy and reality.... I get that .. because some days I don't know the difference.... or I don't want to know the difference..
- And I spoke about fear and the fear that there is STUFF that I have been trying to keep out of my head and out of my therapy and mostly: OUT OF MY THOUGHTS. But trying to stay out of my thoughts means I am not really fully able to make my art, live my life or feel all of my own feelings. I think that for a while now the more I've come to know more of my mind... the more I have wanted to shut down more some of my FEELINGS.
- I couldn't even begin to tell you which item on the new blog came first, second, or third. I am going to try thinking hard. I think we knew we needed some place to put the information from our Google searches that we been talking about for such a long time. It is like they are building up a hole in our pocket. There were a lot of efforts figuring exactly how that would happen, and there was some fine tuning that just went on and on until just a few minutes ago.
- The Plan B part was the part where our Google search references were going to go somewhere constructive and connected to our main site at Ann's Multiple World Personality. We didn't know how we were going to do it. We just knew that we had to start working on it and that we would make editing changes of our system as we went. I wish I could have it figured out before we started, but it just doesn't work that easy some/most times.
- We have intentionally been running some experiments on ‘ourselves’, finding out . . . things. What is what and who does what and what is for what kind of things.
- Aoela was created last year by ‘our system’ for our system’s “behalf”. In our DID lingo ‘behalf’ means for the benefit of the system, the whole. We often don’t know what we are doing when we do that. It’s like the orders come from some unseen direction, some unseen force or ‘being’ inside of us – a Major Player and one from which ‘we’ are being kept from being aware of. It’s always been quite a mystery to me
- Can someone help me.. How did you figure out your alters, and there personalities and how to classify them? I understand you don't always have them all out at once, but the ones you know of.... My head so jumbled I can't seem to do it. And I need help
- DID doesn't always make sense to me but it makes more sense than not knowing what I have or just "depression". Your lovelies will also help you to understand and classify them more as well. They may let themselves be known.
- Does anyone know if Fred Van Lente suffers from Multiple Personality Disorder? Because it certainly feels like two distinctly different people wrote the beginning and end of the first issue of the new Valiant Entertainment’s reboot of Archer & Armstrong.
- So, basically four bucks for twelve decent pages to read. Even with the five page Ninjak preview in the back-up story slot, this issue hits your wallet like those old Image #0 issues. I can only recommend that you either start with Archer & Armstrong #2, or wait for the trade paperback. At least then, twelve pages of fiddling about won’t be 50% of the book.
Current and archived curated/annotated News in Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), or Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD) as collected daily from Google Search utilizing Diigo and by visiting blogs of other people who are also multiples. --- by Ann M Garvey --- Anns are dissociative and believe being dissociative is something that should be treated respectfully.